Embarrassing Created 19 years ago2005-05-16 19:39:30 UTC by satchmo

Man. I had to keep my composure this afternoon when a fifteen year old girl was confessing to me that she's getting oral sex from two guys. I kept my cool and kept a straight face (as much as possible) and counseled her on STD and contraception.

I know I am suppose to be detached and objective as a doctor, but we are only human.

Isnt that stuff conifdental? You sick bastard...

I didn't name any names. If I did, it would be illegal.

But still :/

whoa what brought all this up?

at the same time?

Is the gap in sexual experiance any diffrent from when you were our 14-18 age? I'm not sure how long ago you were a high school student, but it seems like sex was there, but wasn't so out in the open for kids back "then"

Like now, every 6th grader knows about the Paris Hilton sex tapes, and any kid can download any kind of porn in the world from their computer.

young "love" seems to be around more in middle school than when I was a kid... Like there were a few kids having sex which seems gross now that I think about it. But now... its all about lust relation ships, sex has become a symble of status, and most of the kids "doing it" dont know what the hell they are doing. Sex, not love has become the staple of a seriouse relationship. Kids jump in bed just to do the do. I mean, even myself... My girl friend and I tryed to take it as slow as we could but it was only a matter of weeks, and to think that some people wait years.

/rant thingy

Like now, every 6th grader knows about the Paris Hilton sex tapes, and any kid can download any kind of porn in the world from their computer.

Before kids watched their daddies pornvideos and read their magazines..

Yes, Today you can download any kind of porn by clicking a link. I dont think that 6th graders mind would be "damaged" if they saw NORMAL porn, but all kinds of fetish stuff..Not good for kid.

It's quite common nowadays that 10-12 year old kids got girlfriends/boyfriends, but very few of those have sex (Can they really understand what "sex" means? No). If I remember right 35%-45% of 16 years old had been in a sexual intercourse.

<grins at the strange Engrish>

Well, all I have to say is that I corrected the topic title. Oh, and I agree with Mr. G.'s longest paragraph.

Before kids watched their daddies pornvideos and read their magazines..

I bet you did

I think sex has always been around, even in those "ancient" times when I was in high school. It just that people are much less likely to talk about it and put everything in the open.

Personally, I fell much behind my peers when it comes to sex. I wasn't experienced until I was in my thirties. Mostly because I was so hardcore about schoo

Whats the proper age to have sex in America?
it's 16 in UK...

I bet you did

Nyaah, I found some old SWEDISH porntapes and playboys from our familys summercottage.. Dunno who's the owner

It's strange for me. I've done medical breast exams and pelvic exams on women before I've ever had a girlfriend or had sex.

Dunno who's the owner

cough..

Whats the proper age to have sex in America?
it's 16 in UK...

Legal at any age if both are same age and "willing", illegal if one is under 15 and the other isn't. Or, so I think, anyhow.

The girl has to be 16, the boy can be from 12 onwards I think. For the main reason...guys can't get pregnant.

In Yankland, or 'ere?

Do you Welsh folks count ovine-homo intercourse?

Here, if one is over 18 and one is lower, its "rape".

If your both over or under 18, its "ok".

@Alex - Why do you always pick on the Welsh!?! Just because we get mroe action than the English! And we are the sexiests country in the world, a fact known by all Welsh people.

hehehe

Now thats funny.

I find the Swedish sexy :/

If you both are under 18 it's ok, if one is 18+ then other one has to be over 16..
@ Finland

here in scotland we just bang anyone near :P.. oh shit... George bush on a visit to Scotland??? shudder

Bsuh came to holland a few weeks ago, the american security service demanded that the A2, one of the biggest highways in The Netherlands would be closed. 2 weeks ahead of his visit, obviously it dindt.

Hurrah! Bloody yanks [sic].

It's quite common nowadays that 10-12 year old kids got girlfriends/boyfriends

Lucky bastards...

The statutory rape law in the U.S. is quite confusing, with different age limits for each state. And the condition varies depending on consent or previous pregnancy.

The safest thing is to wait until over 18, then you can pretty much do whatever you want (well, within limits).

Hmm... Odd that Children these days have "Boyfriends/Girldfriends"

They really have no idea what it means, but yet they have... a girlfriend...

Very odd concept.

Its like when someone gets a car and doesn't know how to drive

They know what it means, they just dont know how to have a boy/girl friend.

Its a title for most, exclusive touching rights for others, and a true love relationship for some.

Most younger kids have relationships based on lust, not true "love" not even a great deal of care. This leads to a lack of communication, becuase of the lack of connection. Then, becuase there is only lust to connect the two and no communication they dont please each other so one or both will cheat and they think its some kind of big deal and this leads to drama.

Thats something I belive in, if there is good communication in a relation ship it is bound to stay alive becuase if you arn't afraid to say whats on your mind, or "that feels good" "that feels not good" you can have a fullilling relationship.

and that is what lacks for younger kids becuase they dont know how to communicate nor do they feel confortable talking about themselves.

Define the word "child". Define "adult". I'm sure that there's no official age for either, despite what our respective Governments attempt to enforce.

Adult would be some one <18 child >18 becuase at 18 you can sign your own papers and can become independent of your parentals.

According to law, yes. Doesn't mean that the person is competent enough to be classed as mature enough to be given such a right.

Many adults still act like children, and many children have been through so much in their short lives that they are mature beyond their years.

Physiologic age doesn't always tell the whole story when it comes to maturity.

'Course it doesn't. I should be able to vote, dammit!

I would think of a Child as 13 and below... right?

I would think of an Adult as 22 and above, right?

Between that... Is "The Lost Years"

Twenty-two? What the hell? Over-the-top.

They know what it means, they just dont know how to have a boy/girl friend.

Hannibal knew how to gain victory, but not how to
use it.

• Maharbal