Journal #6904
Posted 13 years ago2010-11-30 19:45:16 UTC
Fucking serious journal is fucking serious because fucking angry Rimrook is fucking angry.
I got a letter in the mail from Sallie Mae saying my student loan payments are crazy late and I'm about to default on the loans... problem is this is the only thing I have ever gotten from them. Turns out my mom hasn't paid them in about a year. She TOLD me that the loans were in her name so I wouldn't have to worry about stuff which was a lie, they were in my name but the entire time I was in school, I was lied to. My credit was instantly ruined right before Christmas too. I applied for a credit card designed for paying off debt, plus it would have allowed me to get gifts for Christmas, especially the engagement ring for my fianc?e. I ultimately did not get the new card so I'm stuck. Also, if I don't do something soon, defaulting on my loans will garnish my wages, increase their interest, they'll take all my tax refund amounts, as well as make me ineligible for any loan of any kind from banks and credit bureaus. So I'm now $86,000 more fucked over than before. I'm hoping I can defer them long enough to figure something out. I can't believe my own mother would ruin my life like this.
I got a letter in the mail from Sallie Mae saying my student loan payments are crazy late and I'm about to default on the loans... problem is this is the only thing I have ever gotten from them. Turns out my mom hasn't paid them in about a year. She TOLD me that the loans were in her name so I wouldn't have to worry about stuff which was a lie, they were in my name but the entire time I was in school, I was lied to. My credit was instantly ruined right before Christmas too. I applied for a credit card designed for paying off debt, plus it would have allowed me to get gifts for Christmas, especially the engagement ring for my fianc?e. I ultimately did not get the new card so I'm stuck. Also, if I don't do something soon, defaulting on my loans will garnish my wages, increase their interest, they'll take all my tax refund amounts, as well as make me ineligible for any loan of any kind from banks and credit bureaus. So I'm now $86,000 more fucked over than before. I'm hoping I can defer them long enough to figure something out. I can't believe my own mother would ruin my life like this.
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But wait, your mother was supposed to be paying for that and didn't? Where did all that money go? That's not good.
Free university FTW. (I don't think I've paid more than $10 in the past 3 years, stationery expenses aside)
But, I'm sure she can help you out.
You seem to have the most consistent bad luck out of everyone on TWHL.
She can help you with ur finances!
A-Where did you all get the idea that I had money LOL! I can cook like crazy and other nifty life skills, but I lack the fundage. Though my Family (mother and step-farther) actually currently and previously work in the Loan industry and this WHOLE thing smacks of Fraud. He is most likely not going to have to pay anything because his mom committed fraud, as well as possibly the loan company.
B- as far as talking to his mother EVER again..not gonna happen. We have ALL the e-mails and voice mail messages where she threatened to do JUST this. Which is again fraud. Not to mention the horrible things she said to Rimrook and myself. I haven't herd such violence and filth form another human being EVER in my life. SO she dug her own grave and burned her own bridge. Seriously she ended her phone message with "don't get married, don't breed, and fuck off"
We BOTH spent a Hell of a lot of time trying to reason with this woman, and until she gets some psychiatric help so that she is lucid and coherent enough to carry on a conversation with another person...them's the breaks.
Also the only reason he hasn't responded to this himself was lack of time I think. Dunno, but he mentioned he was going to and then had to go, so I just decided to set it straight.
That's a bunch of bullshit that someone's own mother would do this..
I though MY girlfriend had a crazy-ass mother.
Hope everything works out alright, but if it doesnt, I'll throw a bake sale and paypal you the funds