Commented 11 years ago2013-06-29 13:22:03 UTC
in journal: #8194Comment #42151
They let me film at the gala event but they placed me back behind the photographers which they all kept fucking up my shot. This one British lady was super bad because she just leaned right before my lens like I wasn't even there and blocked the view for a dozen other people also recording the show. If she does it tonight, I do have a nifty tripod that is sturdy enough to double as an extendable baton. Either way, it was cool because they announced me all awesome and shit. Even though anyone can film the main show, they asked me to form the DVD. So everyone who filmed is also a potential alternate camera angle if they volunteer their videos. Most will I think, I know many of them and could ask. My battery ran out half way through so I was scrambling to grab footage on my backups. The show tonight is twice as long to that worries me so I have a long day of unloading and recharging since I can't do much else. If that bitch blocks my shot again tonight, she's getting bludgeoned.
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Commented 11 years ago2013-06-29 03:18:59 UTC
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That's what caused her this contradiction.
And this is why I remain single. When there's even a hint of this sort of drama being permanent, I just walk away. I'll give her this one, but I don't think I'll let it happen again.
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Commented 11 years ago2013-06-28 18:58:28 UTC
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Ah, been there. They bring you in to work but they don't let you do your work.
I don't care because I bill by the hour, not by the photo. And I make sure they know this and I'll be billing them for my presence even if they don't let me take any photos.
I'm constantly in events where the bullies at the checkpoints ask for access credentials which I'm never given. Instead of giving me a pass or something, I have to chase around the people in charge so that they can walk me up to the checkpoint and tell the bully I'm clear. And the bullies have a short term memory of about five seconds, because this will happen again in ten minutes and fifty more times through the night. And they never remember me walking in ten minutes earlier or even having seen me in the place hours before the doors were opened and the public was allowed in.
Commented 11 years ago2013-06-28 18:49:54 UTC
in journal: #8191Comment #62530
We had a talk. Apparently she really really wanted not to be in a relationship this year because she "needed to be free of ties for a while", and "didn't want to miss out on life for a change" (whatever that means) but also she really really likes me and wants me and it was that contradiction that was causing her stress.
I had to bring up that famous quote from John Lennon: "Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans."
Seems she's giving it a try. I'll post again if anything interesting happens.
Commented 11 years ago2013-06-28 13:05:27 UTC
in journal: #8191Comment #62517
Can't be together, too perfect? seriously? That's as shitty of a reason as "you're not the one."
If you were a couple, you'd work it out somehow. Start doing some minor forgivable fuck ups ;] If you let her go with that as the reason, thats bullshit and you can't let that slide if you really like her. You can't tell a woman you care about her, YOU HAVE TO SHOW HER! and it doesn't need to be grandiose like in the movies, though if you can pull something off like that, go for it. Women love movies.
Some girls like assholes. They do that because something on the inside is damaged or missing. Its a loophole in feminine psychology that they want the outside situation to match their inside. Men are nearly opposite so we don't understand it, but it's safe to simply know about it. If you talk and get to know this estranged side of her, you could be able to let her know that she can be happy, and that perhaps she deserves to be happy, and give things a chance.
Commented 11 years ago2013-06-28 12:43:00 UTC
in journal: #8191Comment #62536
Ah, women are made of confusing emotional turmoil that for some reason men can't understand... Sorry about the silly woman, and sorry if this kinda is a kick to the stomach.
Usually, when a woman gives an excuse that is "Its not you, its me." it usually means, you are a awesome person, I like you because you've done all this but I don't think I could do the long term thing. It's kinda a womans way of going "It's been fun, but I'm going to go find a different person to go lead around for awhile."
Doesn't mean you shouldn't try though, if she does mean something too you, try (if she's truly interested she will think this is sweet and think you are "the perfect man for her"). But know when to back off. If you try one or two times more and its fruitless... I would suggest moving on because it probably was an above situation.
But hey, you could get an awesome female friend out of this, and she may have friends. X)
Commented 11 years ago2013-06-24 03:12:55 UTC
in journal: #8192Comment #58302
You should completely disregard that. You said the answer yourself: You have a dynamic IP. Someone that had your IP before messed up on Wikipedia and got Wikipedians angry. A few days after, that IP was reassigned to you, and you're seeing things meant for someone else. Since that person didn't register as a user, only their IP got registered. Just the same, soon that IP will be assigned to yet another person and you'll have a new IP that won't be blocked.
The only way to tell computers apart on the internet with no additional communication is through their IP address. This is, of course, pretty unreliable over a period of time because of dynamic IPs. Things like this happen.
It's no big deal, really. Just ignore it. It has happened to me too.
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Commented 11 years ago2013-06-23 05:16:50 UTC
in journal: #8191Comment #62534
Its common logic that women will do this. If you like the girl, than don't give up as if she means nothing to you.
First try, because you indeed can keep her if you understand her and her feelings. You need to show that you can love her and give her all your best. Listen to your inner feeling.
And do keep in mind that some girls are "corrupted" by the fake morals of todays society, and that many are confused a lot about how things should work. As I said, show that you can give her your best and understand her.
Commented 11 years ago2013-06-22 22:19:50 UTC
in journal: #8191Comment #62516
Means she's not interested. It's possible that she's already found someone else, unfortunately. You're welcome to try to get a real answer out, but you'd probably just waste more of your time.
And this is why I remain single. When there's even a hint of this sort of drama being permanent, I just walk away. I'll give her this one, but I don't think I'll let it happen again.
I don't care because I bill by the hour, not by the photo. And I make sure they know this and I'll be billing them for my presence even if they don't let me take any photos.
I'm constantly in events where the bullies at the checkpoints ask for access credentials which I'm never given. Instead of giving me a pass or something, I have to chase around the people in charge so that they can walk me up to the checkpoint and tell the bully I'm clear. And the bullies have a short term memory of about five seconds, because this will happen again in ten minutes and fifty more times through the night. And they never remember me walking in ten minutes earlier or even having seen me in the place hours before the doors were opened and the public was allowed in.
I feel you bro.
I had to bring up that famous quote from John Lennon: "Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans."
Seems she's giving it a try. I'll post again if anything interesting happens.
If you were a couple, you'd work it out somehow. Start doing some minor forgivable fuck ups ;] If you let her go with that as the reason, thats bullshit and you can't let that slide if you really like her. You can't tell a woman you care about her, YOU HAVE TO SHOW HER! and it doesn't need to be grandiose like in the movies, though if you can pull something off like that, go for it. Women love movies.
Some girls like assholes. They do that because something on the inside is damaged or missing. Its a loophole in feminine psychology that they want the outside situation to match their inside. Men are nearly opposite so we don't understand it, but it's safe to simply know about it. If you talk and get to know this estranged side of her, you could be able to let her know that she can be happy, and that perhaps she deserves to be happy, and give things a chance.
Usually, when a woman gives an excuse that is "Its not you, its me." it usually means, you are a awesome person, I like you because you've done all this but I don't think I could do the long term thing. It's kinda a womans way of going "It's been fun, but I'm going to go find a different person to go lead around for awhile."
Doesn't mean you shouldn't try though, if she does mean something too you, try (if she's truly interested she will think this is sweet and think you are "the perfect man for her"). But know when to back off. If you try one or two times more and its fruitless... I would suggest moving on because it probably was an above situation.
But hey, you could get an awesome female friend out of this, and she may have friends. X)
On a serious note, sorry to hear. It's always hard to get over the "it's not you" kind of break-ups.
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Don't waste a chance just because some one else tried and failed.
You never know until you try. If you want a relationship, there is no other way.
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The only way to tell computers apart on the internet with no additional communication is through their IP address. This is, of course, pretty unreliable over a period of time because of dynamic IPs. Things like this happen.
It's no big deal, really. Just ignore it. It has happened to me too.
sorry to hear man :(:(
If you like the girl, than don't give up as if she means nothing to you.
First try, because you indeed can keep her if you understand her and her feelings. You need to show that you can love her and give her all your best.
Listen to your inner feeling.
And do keep in mind that some girls are "corrupted" by the fake morals of todays society, and that many are confused a lot about how things should work. As I said, show that you can give her your best and understand her.
I'm sorry, I understand that you are very upset about it or you wouldn't share it here. But, I have to agree with Soup Miner.
I've been dismissed for not being interesting enough, which makes sense in a way; but getting rejected for being too interesting... that is new.
LIFE, Y U NO MAKE SENSE
You're welcome to try to get a real answer out, but you'd probably just waste more of your time.